Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Oooo. Something serious!
Ok, I guess I have similar hard limits as most people (no kids, scat, animals, etc), but those are the ones you don’t ever really have to talk about because the kinksters who do enjoy those fetishes are few and far between.
Well, let’s see…
I don’t do medical play because it doesn’t do anything for me and I’m really worried that it would make my frequent trips to the doctor very strange.
I don’t do needles and my body is very sensitive to certain kinds of metals, so I avoid needle play like the plague.
I don’t like whips. Now, this is more of a soft limit. i have a mental block against whips because the sound of a whip cracking scares the shit out of me in a completely terrified kind of way. Maybe if I find the right partner, I could consider opening up this limit to being pushed.
I hate my feet being tickled. People get hurt when they tickle my feet, or I end up hurting myself. Either way, not a recipe for fun.
Anal hooks, sex, or penetration of any kind anally is a hard limit. Its rare that I connect with someone enough to play with them sexually, and within that small group, I haven’t gotten to a point where that is an option. While the thoughts of the possibilities linger in the back of my head, it’s one of those things I don’t think I’m mentally ready for. Maybe if I find someone to guide me through it, I might be ok with it eventually. Until then, no anal.
No fisting. Dear lord, no fisting. That scares me senseless. I pride myself on my tight holes. I’ll gladly take a large cock to stretch me out every once in a while, but anything bigger than that is looking in the wrong place. My vagina is a lovely little hole, not a hallway, and I would love to keep it that way. And you already know how I feel about my ass.
I don’t do age play. It kinda weirds me out. The daddy and little girl thing is great until you throw a diaper into the mix. I’ll sit in daddy’s lap and cuddle and giggle any day, just don’t expect me to start sucking my thumb.
I think that’s it, but the world of bdsm is so vast, I know there are things I haven’t even thought of or come across yet. Until I do, I won’t know how I feel about them. So we’ll just say this is the general generic list :)